tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1617587460049997457.post2976766898616895404..comments2015-09-14T12:38:23.114-07:00Comments on Single Me: On Dating And Becoming Who You Want To BeUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1617587460049997457.post-53650147020844335062014-06-30T16:29:42.929-07:002014-06-30T16:29:42.929-07:00You are right, but its so odd because sometimes I ...You are right, but its so odd because sometimes I have to distinguish between my pursuit of a relationship and make sure it isn't above my pursuit of God and Jesus Christ. I know I have come close to making dating an idol. Not to mention, online dating really makes you devalue the individual more when you keep thinking about the masses of possibilities out there. Thanks for reading and commenting Summer!<br /><br />~ Daniel B....https://www.blogger.com/profile/06103435759220839291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1617587460049997457.post-82031628741611681922014-06-30T16:20:45.754-07:002014-06-30T16:20:45.754-07:00I totally agree with you about the waiting thing. ...I totally agree with you about the waiting thing. You're right, many articles do suggest playing the waiting game and God will bring you his perfect match (especially for women) but, quite honestly, I think that is bad advice. We DO have to pursue things to make them happen. That's life. Like you said, your job didn't just come from waiting around and praying (although of course we should pray about things). I think it's great that you're in a place where you're ready to actively pursue a relationship. There's nothing wrong with searching for what you want - it doesn't mean you don't trust God. It just means you're cooperating with him :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com