tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1617587460049997457.post2519144444930514354..comments2015-09-14T12:38:23.114-07:00Comments on Single Me: Dating Series 3 of 6: Meeting JessyUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1617587460049997457.post-76580586622116748942013-09-25T23:01:26.829-07:002013-09-25T23:01:26.829-07:00Haha For sure. I've been guilty of it myself...Haha For sure. I've been guilty of it myself, though, and didn't realize it until too late. It's so hard to see your situation from inside of it.<br />I used to try to get guys to have crushes on me because I wanted them to be friends with me and figured my only shot at that was to blind them with infatuation. Child logic.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1617587460049997457.post-88569669983261858232013-09-22T14:17:37.121-07:002013-09-22T14:17:37.121-07:00Yeah, I didn't write about it but towards the ...Yeah, I didn't write about it but towards the time of fall break she was talking to this other guy. He looked odd to me but was really country, which I think she liked. Later, when we were still talking, she realized he was clingy and told me he was always following her. I laughed in my mind, because he wasn't doing anything differently it was merely her perception. Funny how our perception can make us blind to somethings and overly creeped out by others but in reality, everything is the same.<br /><br />Yeah, that is really odd when it is someone you like or might like and they are using you to talk about or try to get with someone else. In the words of Full House - "how Rude", right?<br /><br />http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lnjql7m1vi1qafrh6.gif...https://www.blogger.com/profile/06103435759220839291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1617587460049997457.post-40383132544327451922013-09-21T20:13:29.595-07:002013-09-21T20:13:29.595-07:00Goodness, that sounds painful and confusing. It&#...Goodness, that sounds painful and confusing. It's so hard knowing, sometimes, what we want and what we're willing to try with someone. <br />I had a friend kind of like that in and after high school. We would talk online or on the phone until the wee hours. I wasn't really that into him because I was hung up on someone else, but I probably would have gone out with him if he asked. I had thought for awhile that he liked me that way because he asked me to a celebration that no one else from school went to, and he didn't always bother correcting people when they referenced me as his girlfriend. Nothing ever happened, though, and then we ended up fighting over the fact that he never wanted to get together with me, but he was kind of crowding my best friend and would always talk to me about how beautiful she and several other girls were. I accused him of only wanting to spend time with the pretty ones and he told me I needed to reread my Bible. He died before I got to speak to him again, and I still miss him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com